What to expect

A clear and supportive guide to starting therapy

Starting therapy can feel like a big step

Beginning therapy can feel like a big step, especially if you’re unsure of what to expect, or whether you even “need” therapy. That’s okay. You don’t need a crisis, a diagnosis, or a perfectly clear plan to begin therapy. Often, the first step comes from something quieter: a sense that things aren’t quite right, that you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself.

You may be unsure about where to start, or hesitant about what opening up might involve. That’s entirely okay. It’s normal to feel protective, uncertain, or even sceptical. Therapy is a conversation where those feelings are welcome, not something to push past. This page is here to offer clarity on what our first steps together will look like and to help you feel more grounded as you begin.

The first sessions: a space to explore

Our first (few) meetings are a consultation phase, not the start of formal therapy. This is an important distinction, and one that allows us both to take the time we need to understand your concerns, explore what you’re seeking, and consider whether this work feels like a good fit.

We’ll talk about what’s bringing you in, how your concerns have developed over time, and what you’re hoping might shift or feel different. We may also begin to sketch out a sense of what therapy could look like, together.

Sometimes, this happens in one session. Other times, it unfolds over several. The decision to continue is mutual and collaborative, based on clinical fit, shared understanding, and your sense of feeling safe, respected, and seen.

We’ll also cover the practicalities, including informed consent, confidentiality, and other essentials, and you’re welcome to ask any questions as we go. Importantly, informed consent isn’t a one-off task - it’s something we revisit together, especially if the direction of our work shifts. You’re always encouraged to ask questions or raise concerns at any point.

A collaborative process

Therapy isn’t something I apply to you, it’s something we do together. That means we shape the work together based on what feels most meaningful and helpful to you. This includes clarifying your goals, understanding the deeper patterns beneath your challenges, and developing a shared sense of how to move forward.

We’ll talk about both your hopes and your hesitations. Many people arrive with parts of themselves that want change, and other parts that are scared, protective, or unsure. That’s not a problem; it’s part of the work.

My role is to offer clinical insight, grounded support, and therapeutic structure, while always respecting your pace, autonomy, and voice.

Consistency and rhythm

Therapy works best when it’s consistent. That’s not just about logistics, it’s about creating a safe, stable environment where trust can grow and deeper work can unfold. In most cases, I recommend weekly sessions, especially in the early stages. This allows us to build momentum and stay close to the work. Think of it like tending to a relationship, one that needs attention, presence, and rhythm in order to deepen.

For meaningful therapeutic progress, I work with clients who can attend at least fortnightly. Less frequent sessions often make it hard to sustain the continuity that deeper work depends on. That said, life happens. If challenges arise, we’ll talk about them. While consistency is key, honesty and collaboration are equally important. Together, we’ll find a rhythm that’s sustainable and clinically thoughtful.

Importantly, some clients experience a sense of relief or clarity within a few sessions. For others, especially those exploring deeper emotional patterns, therapy becomes a longer-term process. There’s no one-size-fits-all. We’ll keep reflecting together to ensure the work continues to feel purposeful and supportive.

A note on cultural humility and respect

I recognise that therapy doesn’t happen in a vacuum. It’s shaped by our histories, cultures, identities, and lived experiences. I strive to create a process that’s culturally respectful, inclusive, and open to the complexity of who you are, while striving to recognise and navigate the imprints of my own history on our process.

And if it’s not the right fit

Finding the right therapist matters. If it turns out that this isn’t the right match, whether due to clinical scope, style, or something you can’t quite name, I will always respect that, and support you in finding someone who may be a better fit.

Therapy is built on trust, and you should not feel like you have to force a connection. Part of my job is to be honest about when I’m not the right person to help, and to point you in the direction of someone who might be.

This is a place for care, not pressure. We’ll only move forward if it genuinely feels aligned.

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